To deal with my parents, 1st, I'd prepared myself with a very well planned proposal. Before I went back to Sabah, I called up my faculty to understand the procedure like am I able to stay if I am pregnant, and how does the procedure goes on and things like that. After that I went to find my AA ( Academic Advisor) for further information bout my studies. After that, I submit paperworks, letters and other things so I can confirm that I'm going to be absent for a semester. After finish dealing with my university, I'm well prepared to face my parents. AND so, I went back Sabah and I brought my favourite Anmum Original flavor milk powder back home and I kept it in a very visible place. And guess what? My mum thought that my brother had knocked up his girlfriend. Well, the message didn't really get to her so one day, I sat in the living room while watching CSI: Miami and I said " Mum, you're going to be a grandma soon." And she kept silent. Thought that she might not heard it so I once again fill up my guts and said, "Mum, I'm having a baby. And I want you to acknowledge it." Normal parents would have answererd, "God gracious! I send you to study in university and u get yourself in this mess?!" or "I can't believe you. I thought you would be wiser and know how to take care yourself once you're a university student." But she did not answered it that way. She answered me with her tears. She broke into her tears and did not say anything. AT FIRST I was ready with her scolding and yelling and saying something that I had prepared for but I never expected tears were actually dropping from her eyes. I was devastated. THAT is the last thing I wanted to see. My mum crying over my deed. But seeing her crying I held back my emotions and I stand firmly.Because I really wanted to protect my son as how my mum had protected me. Everything really turn into darkness that time. I've lost to my mum. It seems like everything starts to fall apart.

The Introduction

Thanx to Ashley I am able to drop my own point of views in here. Firstly, I would like to wish all of you a very Happy Chinese New Year, which is just around the corner. So, to start with let me introduce myself. My name is Ho Lee Yin @ Christina and was born on the 19th August,1986. My school were just around my neighbourhood. My kindergarten was just 6 min walk,primary 7 min walk and secondary 8 min walk. I was so fed up that's why I choose peninsular M'sia for my Uni. AND so, I stayed a while at my grandparents before enrolling to this beautiful, famous and gorgeous University of Malaya and got my second boyfriend there ( which is currently upgraded to be my spouse ).AND so, the story begins when I was in my first year 2nd semester rushing for reports, daily assignment and stupid OSN thesis which burn my not only midnight oil, it also burns up my morning oil. I'm so messed up during the last week of the semester that I had forgotten bout my best buddy who haven't visited me yet ( a.k.a PMS ). AND so, I was at my boyfriend's house then suddenly his sister asked me whether I need a pregnancy test kit. I never thought of using one so out of curiosity, I tried. Jeng-jeng-jeng.....turns out positive. Well, I wasn't really that shocked cause I practise ' You reap what You sow ' but I'm pretty sure that if my parents found out they'll RIP my head for sure. SO...I told my boyfriend and he was quite shocked. I never really cared though but I'm scratching my head off to find a very valid and strong arguments so I can present a flawless presentation to my parents about the idea of keeping this baby. But then, I'm having exams so I extend the time of thinking it after the exams end. I planned to go back and visit my parents before knowing that I got myself pregnant. Maybe this is destined and not coincidence so at least they'll know it through my mouth and not from just a mere phone call. Here goes, "Hey mum, I got myself pregnant.R u happy?" or "Hey mum, you're going to be a grandma soon,Happy?. This 2 phrases will just inviting meteroids to the earth. Those assignments, thesises and daily homeworks is not as tough as this because they still have a text book for us to refer. What about " 10 phrases to deal with your Mum when you're in a mess"? That would help.